A Spot of Tea

Leap Day!!

2012-02-29T09:55:00.001-08:00

Happy Leap Day!! Shouldn't it be a holiday?

As a kid my dad would remind me that this was the only day a girl could propose to her boyfriend based on an old Irish tradition. I remember giggling in my loft bed thinking he was crazy that girls should never do that.

However is it a crazy tradition? Engagements, to me should be somewhat of a surprise & obviously a celebration. However women get tired of waiting, men don't want to deal with the hoopla & I know many people who plan on getting married without a proposal. You know like Big & Carrie, no romance, no celebration;

“I guess its time we get married” “Yea I guess it is, ok” “Great, what’s for dinner?”

I have no doubt this can work for people but why wouldn’t you want the excitement of it all? Too many people feel like marriage is just the next logical step & there's nothing wrong with thinking that. However just because it's supposed to be whats next, doesn't mean its the right thing. Shouldn't the man want to ask you in a grand or thoughtful way?

If there is no excitement about getting engaged, will you be excited to plan the wedding, to actually get married?? I think the engagement can set the tone of the wedding & who wants to sit through a business lunch reception.

Maybe the Irish have it right; if your boyfriend hasn’t proposed to you & you don't want to wait, why not use this day to break the norm. Get excited, plan something fitting for your relationship. What a great story to tell your friends today & grandchildren in the years to come.

So ladies take the "leap" & pop the question.

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Never enough time

2012-02-27T20:36:00.000-08:00

Right now I am really struggling to have time for everything in my life. I know I am in control of my schedule but sometimes it just seems all out of my hands. I am terrified I am letting people down personally & professionally yet I don't have energy to be 100 % in any aspect of life. I have a million ideas, dreams & to do lists running through my mind that I can't keep up all the time.

I have talked before about making changes but somehow I just keep finding reasons why I can't follow through. I am trying so hard to get past those feelings but it's hard to leave jobs you love & are comfortable with to possibly pursue my dreams of making Stella Jewelry successful. Honestly, its hard concentrating on the normal everyday things I need to do. Right now I am spending all my free time working on a Spring Collection & can't wait to launch it but due to other commitments I haven't got the time to meet my deadlines.

In effort to become more intentional with my time I am signing up for Teuxdeux, it seems like a great website/app to keep track of everything going on & what needs to be done. I hope that I also can get a better grip on what I can do to make my free time more productive because to be honest right now I am so drained on the weekends I don't feel like doing anything.

Has anyone used it or do you have any good advice on time management & pursuing your dreams while working full time?

D.C.

2012-02-27T00:01:00.022-08:00

My week has been a complete whirlwind since Tuesday. As I mentioned I went to D.C for a couple of days to complete my citizenship testing. Thankfully I passed & now I just have to wait for an appointment to take my pledge.

I have a longer blog to post about my Citizenship in the near future but today I wanted to post a few pictures from my quick trip to the Capital.

To celebrate the passing of my test we stopped by Georgetown Cupcakes. I have never seen their show & didn't go in there with high expectations. Cupcakes often look better than they actually taste. I have to say these were amazing, they were the perfect size, great flavor & the icing was light. If you visit you must try the Cookie & Cream.

We also stopped by World Market to stock up on some of my favorite English items then we popped in some fun stores like Kate Spade. I really do love the Capital, its a great city & filled with so much culture, however I can't stand the traffic!!

When I returned to work I was greeted with patriotic treats & decorations. I mean how sweet are they? Thank you Beth & Tricia.

Red Carpet ~ Oscars Edition

2012-02-26T18:17:00.001-08:00

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I have to say I was a little underwhelmed by the Red Carpet tonight! However, I knew someone had to wear one of the Elie Saab gowns I am obsessed with. Berenice Bejo looked amazing in the long sleeved dress, I just wish her hair style was a little fuller & not so stiff. I almost feel the same way about Guiliana Rancic, the look is so perfectly fitted with exquisite beading, yet her hair & make up are to severe.

I think a side bun like this for either ladies would have lightened up the looks.

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What do you think? Did you have a favorite from tonight?

I pledge allegiance

2012-02-20T22:01:00.000-08:00

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This Wednesday I head to D.C. to complete my citizenship test, it is such a long time coming. 13 1/2r yrs to be exact. I had a hard time leaving my life, friends & comfort zone to move here where honestly I have never 100 % felt complete. However, I have had a great life here & look back on those years & can't help but be thankful for the opportunities that this country has given me. I do wish sometimes I was not insecure in my twenties had taken full advantage of those options. I am excited to know I that in the near future I can truly call both England & America home.

I hope you all had a great Presidents Day yesterday, perfect day to study American Civics for the test. Now if only I could remember how many states there are? Oh god now I'm nervous!!

P.S You can take the Citizenship test here. Let me know if you would pass :)

Snowy Days

2012-02-19T19:00:00.000-08:00

It's really hard for me to relax, I work all the time & when I am off I have a million things to do & think about. However, when it comes to snow days I love it, I am pretty much forced to stay home. They are the perfect days to stay warm & cozy on the couch or catch up on my to do lists.

Until I get cabin fever then I might stalk facebook all day because I am bored!!

What are you favorite snow day activities or do you hate snow days?

Lets Fly Away.....

2012-02-16T21:46:00.000-08:00

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My list of dream vacations is endless. There is so much beauty to enjoy & cultures to experience, I can't imagine a life without travel &Greece comes close to the top of the list. Gorgeous blue waters, amazing weather & interesting history to learn about. Ill just ignore their awful economic situation right now!

For today's Friday Fancies, I was inspired not only by the gorgeous colors but also by European style.

Vacations really should be about relaxing, for filling life long dreams & creating memories. However, photographs will last forever so your outfits are almost as important! To ensure I don't waste my time stressing about how I look I like to make sure I have great accessories along with layering & versatile pieces.

Light dresses are always perfect for Spring Vacations, they are easy to pack, comfortable while site seeing in sandals & can be dressed up with fab heels for those endless nights of dancing & a few too many wines! Aren't these color block heels perfect??

What are your favorite travel pieces??

p.s. hope on over to {longdistanceloving} to see the other looks!

Happy Valentines Day!!

2012-02-13T21:13:00.000-08:00

I personally think we should celebrate love all year round as it truly is everywhere! However is always fun receiving roses, chocolates & diamonds right?

I hope you all have a great Valentines day & get spoiled!!

During our Spring Photo shoot this weekend I couldn't help grabbing a cute vday picture! Which then prompted a quick sale on the remaining A/W stock!

catching up

2012-02-13T20:38:00.000-08:00

I am so behind on blogging so here's a little random post!

How cute is this little Cheeky Monkey?

I need Adele's flawless skin!

Someone wore the Elie Saab gown! Katie looks stunning! Not into the blue hair & roots though!

Is that Posh Spice Smiling? I am obsessed with her A/W12 Collection, especially this perfect black dress!

Whitney, thank you for the memories!! Your music will always remind me of dancing as a child!

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Natural Beauty

2012-02-06T20:06:00.000-08:00

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I don't think anything man made could ever compete with natural beauty! I mean the colors in the Barrier reef waters are gorgeous & so inviting!! So inspiring when I am creating new jewelry.

Recently I have been very drawn to the accessory trend of using raw stones. I almost prefer this look rather than a polished stone.

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The brightness of the the Blue Agate is stunning & would look wonderful with a coral dress. I love that the sparkle from the Druzy earrings (middle) formed by a layer of crystals on top of another stone. So glam.

An intention of mine for 2012 is to find a class where I can learn to dip stones & mold metals. I have so many designs already in mind!

P.S Speaking of Jewelry! We have a little sale going on right now!

Mr. Beckham

2012-02-05T23:59:00.000-08:00

I mean how can this not be every woman's favorite Super Bowl Commercial?? That cheeky little smile at the end is perfect!! Sigh Victoria is so lucky!!

Of course there were lots of other great & funny commercials! Which was your favorite?

Todays the day

2012-02-01T11:12:00.000-08:00

Tom's Ballet Flats are finally here! I have been waiting for this day since November & have no patience when it comes to things I want but can't have yet, so you can imagine how excited I am!

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I am in love with the TOMS message of giving back & love supporting this company.

Now I can't decide what color to buy! Story of my life I am never able to make important decisions!!

Fun blue for a pop of color, classic black or a lovely pink for spring??

Eliana Blue Suede Ballet Flats

Which would you choose??

P.S. The old lady in me with a bad ankle in me is super excited about these features :)

Hidden wedge for added height and support

Padded heel cushion

Two-layer insert with EVA foam and latex for plush comfort

Display Inspiration!

2012-01-31T21:30:00.000-08:00

Being a jewelry designer I am always looking for inspiration, not only for my pieces but also for displays.

For the most part we have always stayed pretty traditional with our displays ensuring our pieces are easily shop able. I like clean lines and symmetry so for the most part this works for me but I want our look/brand to stand out.

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As always Pinterest is serving me well with the inspiration. I am really loving the gold tree for our spring collection. What do you think? Traditional or unique?

No Fast Food February Round 2

2012-01-31T10:19:00.000-08:00

In my world of chaos, two jobs & aspiring to be a better blogger/fabulous jewelry designer grabbing fast food is a sad but common occurrence. I really want to change this habit not only to be healthier but also I am sure I would save some dollars & force me to be more organized!

This time last year as part of my 30 before 30 I decided to give up fast food for a month. Well I am doing it again this year & I am excited that my friend Tricia & her mom are joining me. It will be nice to have someone to be accountable to.

....and as if giving up yummy Chick Fil a isn't enough, I am going to stop drinking regular soda too. I am a self proclaimed Coca Cola addict & not 100% sure I can handle this!! I apologize in advance if I am grumpy lack of caffeine may have bad affects on me!

goodbye sweet syrupy deliciousness! You will be missed but never forgotten!!

Red Carpet Winners ~ SAG Edition

2012-01-29T20:11:00.000-08:00

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Right now I am in a food coma from take out, watching the Red Carpet. Nothing like a night on the couch watching gorgeous girls live the glamorous life to make you eat more candy in a fit of jealously, lol.

I couldn't pick a favorite look seen as no one was wearing any of these. I mean I know the collection was just shown on Tuesday, but if Rachel Zoe was their stylist she would have had the gown shipped straight from the runway, right?

Stacy Keibler looks exquisite in her lace Marchesa gown, but really who would look bad with that silver fox on their arm?

Naya Rivera's gown got a little risky with the plunging neckline, very age appropriate & perfectly fit.

When it comes to Emma Stones look I am torn. Her hair compliments her face & the top of the dress, yet the waist & hemline seem to make the dress heavy. What do you think?

and finally.....Emily Blunt looked radiant in a Oscar de la Renta one shoulder dress. The color & jewelry are perfect, however I wish she had Emma Stones hair style!

Did you have a favorite from last night?

P.S. Did anyone watch the Kardashians? I really think Kim just fell in love with the fairy take & was jealous of her sisters so she rushed!! So sad!

Instagram Sunday!

2012-01-29T18:48:00.001-08:00

I'm linking up with Jenni again for the Best of Instagram! As I spent most of my spare time this week working on our spring collection & as a result most of my pictures are of jewelry.

Well except for Romeo & Juliet pic! My friend & I took it back to the 90's during movie night, I was obsessed with this movie back then & with Leo! He ~~was~~ is so dreamy!

I am really excited about the colorful jade bead's we ordered, they will make a fun pop of color to any outfit!

What do you think of the two new earring designs? I am not sold on the green & gold look yet and would love your opinions!!

Hope you all had a fab weekend & have a great Monday!

Stunning doesn't even cover it!

2012-01-27T08:40:00.000-08:00

I can't even begin to tell you how much I love the Elie Saab Spring Couture collection.

I am stunned by beautiful necklines, silhouettes & the intricate detailing. There is no doubt that these gowns would make any woman feel glamorous, sexy and feminine all at once! I can't wait to see who wears one of these options to the Oscars!

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If I was Michelle William's Stylist I would be on the first flight to Paris for the Mint Option.

Who could you see wearing Elie Saab on the Red Carpet?

Friday Fancies ~ Blog Swap

2012-01-26T21:02:00.000-08:00

Its time for Friday Fancies with a little twist, we are swapping blogs! I couldn't be happier to be paired up with Ivana of Macarons and Pearls!

I really envy her bold sense of style & today's look is no exception! Definitely a perfect look for shopping!

Thank you Ivana for pulling together such a great outfit!

Once again, Allison from Long Distance Loving had a great Friday´s Fancies idea. We´re doing a blog swap today, and I couldn´t be happier, being paired with Roxy. I´ve only recently discovered her lovely blog, but
I´m already completely smitten with her beautiful jewelry designs. I think we have quite a similar taste and I´m really happy to share my favorite shopping outfit with you! So here it goes:

Hi, my name is Ivana, and I´m a shopaholic. There. I said that. I love shopping, it´s no good denying it. Once I wrote that shopping was my cardio, and it´s still true. Obviously, my bank manager would disagree, but I love going through racks full of clothes, searching for the hidden treasures. Of course, if you want your shopping trip to be successful, you need the perfect shopping outfit. To me, this means simple clothes and nothing too fussy. I love myself a well fitted pencil skirt, but I´m sure I´d hate it wholeheartedly if I had to put it off and on ten times in several different changing rooms! My perfect shopping outfit consists of a pair of skinny jeans, a simple button down, a cardigan and a big tote that holds all my essentials and that can serve as a shopper when in need. Of course, the most important rule is: no high heels! A pair of well-worn boots in winter, or some ballet flats in summer are just as stylish as your favorite pair of stilettos, and your feet will thank you infinitely! Steer clear of tons of jewelry (I personally hate when my chandelier earrings get all tangled up in the sweater I´m just trying on). A statement watch and a pair of stylish sunnies is all you need to look amazing while on the hunt for your next perfect closet addition! Don´t you agree?

What does your favorite shopping outfit look like? And thanks so much for having me as a guest, Roxy, I really had a blast!

1. Topshop Dropped Back Sleeveless Shirt, $60.00

2. Current / Elliot The Skinny Jeans, $194.00

3. BCBG Max Azria Roz Leopard-print Wool Cardigan, $56.96

4. Frye Wyatt Harness Boots, $288.00

5. Michael Michael Kors Hamilton Rock N´Roll Leather Tote, $450.00

6. Ray Ban Wayfarer, $145.00

7. La Mer Collections Bali Stud Wrap Watch, $115.00
8. Dior 5 Couleurs Garden Edition Couture Colour Eyeshadow Palette in Garden Pastels, $59.00
9. Dior Le Vernis in Waterlily, $23.00

To see my look hop on over to her page & leave us both some love!

Talking about Friends!

2012-01-24T20:32:00.000-08:00

Recently, my dear friend Kristin started a photography business & lucky for me she shot some pictures of my jewelry a few weeks ago (I posted a few here).

I love the collage of some of our most popular pieces.

and this picture quickly became our Facebook & Twitter profile pictures!! How lovely does Krystal look?

When shes not helping me create my business, she is busy taking amazing Maternity, family & newborn pictures.

I think she does a great job capturing life's precious moments! I mean how cute is the little boy & his Dad? soo happy!

I would love for you to take a look at her website & leave her some love as she follows her dreams!

Bracelets again!

2012-01-23T21:18:00.000-08:00

Clearly I love jewelry & I have spoken of my love of Bracelets before. I seriously feel lost if I leave the house without one!

So lucky for me bracelets are still in style for Spring 2012. Stacking chunky bangles, pops of color & tribal elements are whats its all about.

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Unfortunately for me I am not a huge tribal fan, I tend to like cleaner lines & as much as I love the layer look of lots of bracelets with a great watch being 5'3 it makes my arms look like stumps. Not cute.

To create similar looks I would opt for multiple skinny bracelets or one statement bracelet that is not a cuff like below.

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Are you into lots of bracelets, a statement piece or nothing at all on your wrists?

Lucky me

2012-01-23T20:00:00.000-08:00

As usual the weekend flew by entirely to fast however I am thankful I got to spend time celebrating a friends daughters 1st birthday! Working so much I tend to miss out on a lot of events.

Today I am linking up with Jenni of Story of My life for her best of Instagram. Again my pictures are kind of boring, I really have to step it up.

I know I already posted about my nails, like I said I need to step up my Instagame!! I celebrated Brianna's birthday with a yummy Margarita! Not sure if that's appropriate behavior at a baby's party??oops! Saturday I broke out the Wonder Woman eye shadow's to feel like a super hero & how cute are my are my cats? I just love them.

I am also thankful for all the lovely comments I received on my Friday Fancies look! You are all so sweet, I love connecting with other bloggers. In fact one of the new blogs I discovered is lili & mae, seriously cute & lucky me I won her recent giveaway. A $20 credit to Sweet Musings Paperie.

First of all how adorable are her illustrations & how perfect is that after this post about letters?

I hope you all had an amazing weekend & enjoy the week ahead!

Friday Fancies ~ Channeling Mila

2012-01-19T20:12:00.001-08:00

I spent most of Friends with Benefits jealous of Mila Kunis, I mean she has killer legs, perfect hair, steamy scenes with JT plus amazing clothes! Ugh Movie Stars are so lucky!

For this weeks Friday Fancies I decided to channel one of my favorite looks to be more my style. Instead of the jersey skirt I opted for a more structure with similar lines & not so short! Although if I had her legs I would rock her skirt! As for the shoes I am not a sandal fan so I added a fun flirty Mary Jane to compliment the top. I prefer lighter bags that aren't so slouchy & the clean lines of this Kate Spade purse are perfect. Finished off with some gold hammered bracelets for a little glam.

What do you think?

P.S. Thank you for all the comments last week, I loved all the input on my look!! I hope you all have a fab weekend!

Cheating!

2012-01-18T20:03:00.000-08:00

I have a love hate relationship with nail polish! I love the fun color options & getting manicures but when it comes to DIY I always mess up one nail & because I spend most of my day typing or making jewelry they chip easily. At which point I become obsessed with finding nail polish remover because I can't handle one messed up nail! Please tell me someone else is this crazy?

Since joining the blog world I was introduced to what I thought was a new company, Essie! Turns out they have been around since 1981, like me! So when I found some on sale at Trade Secret for $1, yes that's right $1. I decided to cheat on my old faithful (easily chipable) OPI & buy a couple.

Should I feel guilty?

I picked up a light pink & this orange/red color Geranium & I am in love. They are so smooth & easy to apply and so far so good with the chipping.

I added a little Sparkle from the OPI Burlesque collection & finished with the Essie 'Good to Go" top coat, which drys the polish in minutes! Amazing for a busy lady!

Whats you favorite nail polish brand & color of the moment?

Snail Mail

2012-01-17T07:18:00.000-08:00

As outdated as snail mail is it's so lovely to receive a hand written letter or package, luckily I have some amazing people in my life who pop little treats in the post for me. I however am the worst at responding. I have the best intentions & ideas but with my jobs I never get around to it.

Recently, I found an old box full of letters from friends in England sent after I moved to America. Reading those letters flooded my mind of memories & emotions. Then I discovered letters that had never been opened. They had been stored while in College & never seen until now!! Ridiculous I tell you ridiculous! Only would this happen in my life!

Reading them was so bitter sweet. I was extremely thankful for the sweet notes from people I love & miss yet I am upset that I never read or responded to them. For many reasons; work, money, greencards & visa processing, I have not been able to spend a lot of time in England over the years & it has broken down my friendships. I can’t help but think that if I had spent more time communicating through letters in the pre-facebook world that we would still be close friends today.

The letters made it more apparent to me that I have placed importance on the wrong things in life like work, which lets be honest that hasn't got me where I want to be in life. My choices clearly have held be back. As I continue to create a life of intention friendship has to be at the top of the list. I need to spend more time reaching out even if it’s been years since I have seen someone & actively following through. I may have the best intentions to send a note/text/call/visit but how does that person know I care if I never follow through? I know part of the distance is insecurity that the friendship will not be the same & that I am not happy with where I am in life, but the longer I wait the more awkward it becomes.

ok moving on! I'll stop the "im feeling sorry for myself" part & onto something superficial, cause superficial is more fun. Writing letters means I definitely need new stationary! Which one do you like best?

You all know I love some glitter so the Jess LC ones are perfect & I love the elegance & humor in the "holla back yo" lol

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My week through Instagram

2012-01-16T12:18:00.000-08:00

Linking up with A {little} dash of ash with my week through Instagram!!

Classy beers with friends, an adorable invite to the cutest one year old's birthday & a fabulous retro tea cart transformed into a mini bar!! It was a good week for mail as I am in love with the Stilla Eyeliner from my January Birchbox. As a Project Runway Addict I was super excited to find Daniel Vosovic's Book randomly, I loved him in season 2 & finally a mid de-cluttering picture. Yes I know my T.V is an Antique I just don't care about HD, sorry!

Hope everyone made it through Monday, only four more days to the weekend :)

and the winners are......

2012-01-15T19:51:00.000-08:00

Can you imagine how many millions of dollars there are in jewelry at one awards show? This is one of the random things that runs through my mind while watching TV. Seriously security must be crazy.

I was so excited that two of my favorite movies over the past year won Golden Globes. Michelle Williams was stunning in My Week with Marilyn & Midnight in Paris was a witty story that made me fall in love with Paris & the 1920s again.

When it came to fashion everyone looked stunning & glamorous however I wasn't wowed by any over all look. Here are some of my favorite elements from the night.

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Mila Kunis's make up is perfection, so simple & elegant, I just wish you couldn't see through the top of her gown. After the Color Crush Friday Fancies I couldn't resist posting Heidi's necklace. A beautiful statement piece, unfortunately the overall look seems out of place on the red carpet. More St. Bart's than Golden Globes.

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I am obsessed with the back of Clare Danes dress. It is so perfectly fitted adding a little excitement to a safe dress. Charlize's headband was the clear winner in the accessory department for me. Who wouldn't want to wear that many diamonds in your hair?

Did you have a favorite overall look from the awards?

Oh & how handsome were the men! Adam, Bradley & Leo all looked yummy!!

Friday Fancies ~ Color Crush

2012-01-12T20:45:00.001-08:00

Call me predictable but I am always in love with turquoise so it had to be my color of choice for today's Friday Fancies.

I have never been one to wear bright colors, well except for the neon orange & yellow Lycra outfits when I was 8! Thank god I don't have a picture of that lol.

However, I am a huge fan of color in accessories. With the clean lines & lightness of the dress the bib necklace would be a stunning contrast. While the Coral bracelet & ring adds a playful pop to the overall look.

I would love to hear your opinions on what shoes you would pair with this look! I thought Nude would be to plain & turquoise to much.

Don't forget to check out the color overload over on {longdistanceloving}

Color Overload!

2012-01-10T20:24:00.000-08:00

When designing jewelry, I am easily drawn to natural & classic colors sometimes incorporating a pop of coral & of course turquoise.

For Spring 2012 I am stepping out of my normal aesthetic & letting the inspiration of Pantone's 2012 colors set the tone.

I spent most of the evening ordering new stones & elements. Now I am impatiently waiting for the delivery.

Isn't it the worst when you motivated & have to wait to put ideas into action? Patience is definitely an opportunity in my personality.

What colors are you loving for 2012?

Working for the weekend

2012-01-10T08:19:00.000-08:00

I have been working like crazy at my regulars jobs over the holidays & I have been super tired lately. Last night I had every intention to start on de-cluttering my life, instead I watched NCIS & fell asleep.

Although I didn't get any of my to do list done, it felt so good to get some rest & wake up somewhat fresh & motivated. Feeling refreshed also made me excited about taking this weekend off work.

Working on the weekend's makes me miss out on simple activities like brunch downtown or picking up fresh fruit at the farmers market. So this weekend I plan to sleep in, shop some local stores & celebrate a friends birthday without rushing to get ready.

As my contribution to the dinner portion of the evening, I am considering making a Brie & Apple appetizer. I can't wait to try it.

Only 3 1/2 workdays to go!

What are you looking forward to this weekend?

Friday Fancies ~ Best Foot Forward

2012-01-05T21:03:00.000-08:00

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I've been swooning over these Louboutins for a while now. The rhinestones are perfectly placed while the shade of pink takes me back to my ballet days. When it was announced Friday Fancies would be inspired by shoes I knew in second I had to feature these & the structured Michael Kors dress was the perfect compliment.

In other fashion news I am so excited about Project Runway All stars, however somethings missing without Tim Gunn's "carry on".

I didn't watch Aprils season & after her looks tonight I'm really looking forward to see more from her. I am also a little more of a Kenely fan this year, she used to annoy me but I love her retro fun style.

Who is your favorite so far & did any of you watch 24hr Catwalk?

Its fast pace & different contestants each week doesn't allow the viewer to build a connection with the designers.

De-cluttering

2012-01-04T18:55:00.000-08:00

The promise of the new year & a fresh start is quite overwhelming to me. I have so much I want to accomplish in 2012. However, the jumbled thoughts & plans are swimming around in my head with no clear directions.

I want to follow through on all my intentions to ensure I don't let time & opportunities pass me by. Instead of stressing myself I am going to work on one or two projects at a time. The first being de-cluttering my life. I have so many unnecessary objects (figuratively & literally) that quite honestly hinder me when I am busy.

My first order of business is to organize my closets & clothes. I want a working closet that I find easy to style myself from,.

Of course for some inspiration I took to Pinterest. Now if I could only afford to shop at Chanel to make that gallery wall!

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What are your New Years resolutions? Are you good at keeping them?

A little Bubbly?

2012-01-03T07:50:00.000-08:00

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I mean how perfect is this cooler? My work days would be a little easier with this in the office!!

Well Hello 2012

2012-01-02T09:09:00.000-08:00

New Years Eve has always been much a do about nothing for me. I stress about plans & outfits only for the evening to go downhill. There was the time I was back in England, the anticipation of a big night out with my childhood best friends; it would have to be epic right? No I was ill for almost the whole trip & had to go to the doctors twice. Then there was the time I took a Tylenol to rid a headache before a fun party. Only to wake up at 2 am to realize it was Tylenol PM, Happy New year to me.

Until this year my expectations were always so high for the night, it’s a new year with so much promise & change. Then the ball drops, the nights not how I imagined it & my life’s still the same. This New Years Eve I was content just relaxing with no expectations & the chill night doing little was perfect.

The past year I have had my share of ups & downs. I unfortunately missed my childhood best friends wedding & the crazy cat lady in me was heart broken at the passing of my dear Brooklyn. Then there was some fun; the soda addict I am I was in heaven at the World of Coke. I visited Salem MA & Boston in October, im in LOVE. I spent my 30^th birthday in Vegas with fabulous friends; my Mum gave me her Gucci watch I have been eyeing since I was 13 & my dear friend Rachel gave birth to the sweetest little girl, Brianna who I adore.

* amazing birthday dinner on the balcony of the Venetian at Boucheon Bistro

Most importantly I struggled to find myself; I felt like I didn’t belong where I am personally, professionally & geographically. However, I learnt about living with intention & have been inspired by so many stories in my blogging & everyday life that I am slowly defining who I am & creating the life I want.

I can’t wait to see who I become this year & hope my 30’s are filled with love & laughter.

Holiday Baking

2011-12-25T22:16:00.000-08:00

I hope everyone had a fabulous holiday filled with family, friends & lots of laughs. I spent the entire day with my brother & parents being lazy, watching movies & eating my favorite meal of the year!!

After eating entirely to much for lunch I was craving something sweet for dinner & decided to bake some cookies from an old English recipe. They are the perfect combination of savory & sweet.

Again this week I only took pictures of food on instagram,whats up with that? There has to be other more interesting things in my life? Oh well I am still linking up with A {little} dash of Ash to show off the pics!

Look at that golden goodness, don't they look delish?

Friday Fancies ~ Winter White

2011-12-22T22:50:00.001-08:00

Although it's after labor day, an all white look seems to cozy and perfect for winter to me.

I opted for a simple cardigan and a fun layered panel skirt. I love the distressed seams. Nude booties seemed like a must seen as I hate white shoes. They belong in a bad 80s music video.

.........and lets talk about the ring, the perfect amount of color. I am insanely jealous of anyone who can rock this piece!

Are you for or against white this time of year?

Take a look at the other Friday Fancies over at {longdistanveloving}.

a little Turquiose

2011-12-20T21:01:00.000-08:00

Just like every girl I am a huge fan of little Tiffany Blue Boxes & by the look of my Pinterest I can't get enough of the color in general.

Chanel / Suitcases / Pillows / Outfit 1, 2, 3

From gorgeous shoes to Chanel nail polish & Vintage suitcases there really isn't anything I don't love about the cool color. I also love that it looks great with neutrals & bright colors like coral & orange.

I am itching to try my hand at a DIY project for a ottoman similar to the one above or maybe an upholstered bench. However knowing me I will get bored half way through and never complete it. Do you have a color that you are always drawn to?

Instagram link up.

2011-12-19T13:55:00.000-08:00

Last month I finally bit the Apple & bought the iPhone. I am so glad I made the switch it has made things so much simpler. I can blog on the go, take payments through my Square for Stella Jewelry & I finally have Instagram!

So I am linking up with a {little} dash of ash to show off my pictures from the last week. I only have two :-/ & both are food. Oh well I will work on being more creative however these were by far by favorite meals this week.

The concept of Chicken & Waffles is still new to me, it seems like an odd combination. Odd but AMAZING! For a little holiday get together a friend made a Cheddar Bacon Ranch Pulls from Pinterest. Although the recipe called for enough butter to make Paula Deen proud they were so yummy & very addictive.

Hope everyone had a great weekend filled with holiday cheer!!

Friday Fancies ~ Time to Sparkle

2011-12-16T00:00:00.000-08:00

As a 80's baby & a child of the 90's I cannot ever get enough Sparkle. So todays Friday Fancies is perfect for me!

I thought about going crazy and creating my best 100% glitter outfit a la the Spice Girls. Then I remembered this adorable Lina Silk Skirt I found on Pinterest. It's so feminine & flirty.

A low key top & shoes were a must to ensure nothing was taken away from the skirt. Then to add a bit more glitter fun, Jimmy Choo purse.

I am already looking forward a couple of Fridays to create a fab New Years Eve outfit, there is bound to be lots more Sparkle there.

Hope everyone enjoys my Friday Fancies ~ be sure to stop by {longdistanceloving} to see more amazing looks.

Working on my Business!!

2011-12-15T14:55:00.000-08:00

Another week & no time to blog again. I also can’t seem to get in the Christmas Spirit. I’m super tired from work & all I want to do it work on making Stella a real business so days in the office drag along so slowly. It’s been awhile since I blogged about business plans so here are some updates.

Our website needs some loving but we are slowly getting there. I need to magically become a fancy graphic designer. Online sales are slow and we appreciate everyone we have. With time restraints I’m having a hard time updating the new items we make, I’m hoping in the New Year to dedicate more time to this.

Last week we had a small booth on a local farmers market with other vendors, the first time we did this we did rather well. This week not so much, I was a little disappointed however it was freezing and who wants to stand outside looking at jewelry when they can be inside with hot chocolate. However the night was not a total bust. After the event we went to the Tuned Out Christmas Party at a local bar. We had the jewelry with us & sold 6 pieces while at the bar. Guess I just need to take the jewelry to the bar from now on J Liquor can only help sales right?

Sunday my friend Kristin kindly included our pieces in a photo shoot, we are super excited to see all the shots. Here’s a sneak peak;

Thank you Kristin & Krystal.

I'll be back with a fun fashion post tomorrow for Friday Fancies. This week its all about the Sparkle!!

Friday Fancies

2011-12-09T10:18:00.001-08:00

I find myself overbooked often in life, so many obligations personally and professionally. With the holidays fast approaching my calendar is always full.

For this weeks Friday Fancies I pulled together a look to carry me through the holiday parties. What I would give for this gorgeous Victorica Beckham dress, its only $3200, bargin right? With the high neckline of the dress I wanted to concentrate on the earrings and ring being focal points & those Fendi Shoes, I NEED.

Now I need to get it together and buy some gifts, reading about all the bloggers who are done & have everything wrapped is making me feel a little insecure. Are you done yet?

Im Pinning again

2011-12-07T12:20:00.000-08:00

This week I haven't had much time to spend on Pinterest, which is probably a good thing. I have beeen crazy busy at both jobs & have been on the hunt for gifts in between. All while missing England like crazy, as I always do during the holidays. However I did manage to find some NYE dress & make up inspirations, a cute nail idea & a fab idea for all those vacation memories.

I can't wait to Get Crafty & empty the some of my boxes full of travel memories. I think the frames would look great mixed in with photographs on a gallery wall. I also am dying over the dress, I doubt I will find anything like this in Roanoke but I might find time to glam up a LBD I have at home with some rhinestones.

What fab things have you found on Pinterest lately?

O.B.S.E.S.S.E.D

2011-12-06T12:26:00.000-08:00

I am beginning to have an obsession with all social sites & I almost can't keep up.

I covert every girls hair & nails on Pinterest, why do they always have perfect nails?

I pretend im a stylist on Polyvore!

I celeb stalk on Twitter! dont judge you know you do too!!

I live vicariously through peoples travel on Intsagram.

Facebook is still the staple Social site.

Now i've discovered Beso! A shopping site that lets you shop all your favorite brands from one site, lets you know the best deal & where you can create collections (kind of like a board on Pinterest). All my favorite stores in one location ~ AMAZING!!

Does anyone else use Beso? What other social sites should I become addicted to?

Bangles

2011-12-05T09:41:00.000-08:00

I have a million bracelets & rarely go a day without one, recently I have been looking for a few statement pieces for the winter to pair with some thinner pieces I have.

When browsing Beso I found this adorable City Lights Bracelet & fell in Love again with the London calling bracelet.

I am always missing home at this time of year. There is nothing like getting in the holiday spirit shopping in Manchester & London with the cool air, markets & Christmas lights everywhere. These bracelets embody those memories & would be a perfect pop of color for layering.

A present for myself??

Victoria Beckham

2011-11-29T00:00:00.000-08:00

My love of the Spice Girls & Victoria Beckham's style is no secret. From the day I heard Wannabe the 90's child in me has been complete. Thankfully my style has grown & so has theirs. They have certainly come a long way from the glitter knee boots (which I would have died for in 1997).

Anyway, the who's who of British Fashion gathered in London Last night for the British Fashion Awards & Victoria won Designer Brand of the Year. In my opinion a well deserved honor years in the making. Posh & her gorgeous husband have been building their immensely successful brand "Beckham" for years.

In the fashion world her designs have been a huge success & she is rarely seen in other designers gowns.

Beckham understands the importance of believing in your pieces. Consumers today see through sales pitches & need to know the celebrity/designer would wear their pieces not just plaster their name on them.

Above left is my favorite piece from her 2009 collection. The silhouette is perfection & the subtle sequin waist adds some glam without being over baring. I also am loving the halter gown Posh wore to the awards ceremony, the slim pleats are on trend for this winter.

What do you think of Victoria's designs?

A big contgrats to Sarah Burton for winning Designer of the Year. Another well deserved honor after becoming the head of McQueen & the gorgeous Royal Wedding pieces how could she not win.

Happy Thanksgiving

2011-11-23T13:39:00.001-08:00

When we first moved to America I was so excited for Thanksgiving. I get to enjoy my Mums holiday cooking & the time off school was a exciting too. Tomorrows no different, except school is traded for a day off work, kind of.

I work part time at a retail store so I will up early the next day to enjoy another crazy Black Friday :)

I picked out a fun outfit that I would love to be rocking tomorrow. Dressy but not as festive as a Christmas outfit. Those Louboutin booties are so lovely and with the warm weather around here this week the perfect fall shoe.

In reality ill probably wake up & put on my Va Tech Hoodie & jeans then watch movies all day or NCIS...i hope theres a marathon!!

Do you dress up for thanksgiving or go for comfort?

Fleur de Sel Caramels

2011-11-23T10:18:00.000-08:00

I researched a few of the recipes found all over Pinterest & the adapted them to work for me & what I had on hand.

2 Cups of Granulated Sugar

1 Cup of Light Corn Syrup

2 Cups of Heavy Cream (I used Ultra Pasteurized some recommend not to use this)

5 Tablespoons of Unsalted Butter

1 Teaspoon of Vanilla Extract

½ Teaspoon of Salt

1 tablespoon of Sea Salt

Make sure you have a candy thermometer on hand and parchment paper.

One: Have Patience this takes about an hour but sooooo worth it J

Two: Combine One cup of Heavy Cream, the Sugar, Corn Syrup & Salt in a sauce pan (make sure it’s rather deep as the caramel will bubble) at medium heat.

Three: Stir the mixture constantly at medium heat bringing it to boil.

Four: As the mixture boils add the second cup of cream. Do this very slow, as the addition of the cream may cool the caramel too quickly.

Five: Lower the temperature to low/medium & allow the mixture to boil for approximately 6 minutes. No stirring.

~ During this time I lined a pan with the parchment paper lightly butter ~

Six: Add the butter one tablespoon at a time stirring after each spoonful melts.

Seven: Add the candy thermometer; allow the mixture to boil until its hits 250 degrees* while stirring occasionally. This takes about 35 minutes, the mixture will begin to become more golden & a little thicker.

Eight: Once you reach 250 degrees remove quickly & add your vanilla extract.

Nine: Pour your caramel into the pan. Do not scrape as you pour as this will cause the caramel to crystallize before it settles.

Ten: Allow the caramel to cool at room temperature. Once cooled sprinkle with Sea Salt & cut. To wrap individually use pieces of wax paper.

*(If your temperature is not climbing steadily you may need to adjust the heat, it will vary on each stove

Pinterest & Caramels

2011-11-23T10:17:00.000-08:00

Lets talk about Pinterest! Seriously I am obsessed & now want to become

A DIY Blogger with an amazing home

A Style Blogger with amazing outfits each day

An amazing cook

A perfect hostess with impeccable taste

A more thoughtful gift giver

A wedding planner (seriously the gorgeous wedding ideas are everywhere)

I really could go on; basically I now want to be amazing at everything & to be able to able to pin the pictures as proof lol

To make my pinning time turn productive I am planning on post my favorite finds of the week on my blog & the outcomes of projects and recipes I complete. Maybe a few of you will join me J

First Up Fleur de Sel Caramels inspired by this picture.

I mean how yummy does that look?

Caramel is by far one of my favorite treats. In

England

I was in love with Thortons Toffee which was perfectly chewy yet soft. It was oh so creamy with the perfect hint of vanilla. My goal was to make my caramels have a smooth texture & that creamy flavor. Adding the salt provided a little change making them perfectly salty & sweet.

I researched a few of the recipes found all over Pinterest & the adapted them to work for me & what I had on hand. For my first try I am beyond impressed at how easy they were to make & that I was able to recreate one of my favorite candies. They were a huge hit for my parents & co-workers. My only regret is I didn’t take enough pictures, they were gone too quick.

Perfect homemade gift for the holidays.

Mix it up ~ Friday Fancies

2011-11-18T16:26:00.001-08:00

I am linking up with the adorable {av} again for Friday Fancies. This week was all about mixing patterns, something that I do not do & frankly I never wear bright colors either. However, I want to be more creative with my wardrobe so this posed as a perfect opportunity to look outside my box.

I love the overall look with the polka dots & the statement necklace, which is so not normally me. Against my normal style rules I went with the lace flats (normally I would opt for boring black leather), what do you think?

Be honest a do or a don't? :)

Anyway I am off to see some vampire's and werewolve's tonight! Hope everyone has a great weekend.

P.S. looking for some Thanksgiving Table decor ideas pop over here? My Mum gave her two cents, im loving the clean whites and greens!

All I want...

2011-11-18T15:57:00.001-08:00

No this isn't a post about what I want for Christmas, however it is about what I want in life.

Right now the world seems so depressing to me, there is so much, hate, anger and resentment and it makes me sad. People always want more money, more things . Don't get me wrong more money would make life way easier and of course I crave gorgeous things however, if you aren't happy with your life in general things don't mean anything.

I want to purge all the unnecessary items from my life and truly only participate in things that make me happy and that can bring happiness to other people I love.

Being 30

2011-11-07T19:35:00.000-08:00

So i've been 30 for a little over two weeks and honestly don't feel any different. However, I have spent a lot of time thinking wow my life isn't anywhere near what I thought it would be, but that's ok! I am the only one who can change that and I learnt from 20's to stop waiting for life to happen.

I also could not have asked for a better birthday my friends spoilt me!

The motto I am planning to live my life by now is:

"We should all start to live before we get too old. Fear is stupid. So are regrets." — Marilyn Monroe

Post Halloween

2011-11-01T14:07:00.000-07:00

So the peacock costume was kind of a bust! It took so long to feather one part of the dress I gave up and went as Snooki!!!! Kind of ridiculous but made for a fun night.

I kind of wish I a little more orange oh and I did add a leopard print belt later on to look a little more jersey!!

How was everyones Halloween weekend??

P.S. I'm not gonna lie, i have a love for the Kardashians and am sad for them! I'm not sad shes getting divorced, I saw that coming but at all the hate spread all over the internet. I can't believe how mean people are being. I really don't think she would go as far as fake a wedding for TV. I think she wanted a wedding and be happy ever after she didnt see he wasn't the right person until it was to late!!

Im back and its Halloween!!!!

2011-10-28T13:50:00.001-07:00

Since I got back from Salem Ma and my crazy weekend in Vegas I have been obsessing over starting my blog again and my halloween costume. I have accomplished neither this week. So to get me back on track I linked up with {Longdistanceloving} for a Halloween Friday fancies.

As of right now I have no costume but I do have a black dress and lots of feathers, rhinestones and a glue gun. So tomorrow I may look a little like a peacock with fabulous fantasy make up or a girl in a black dress who everyone asks what are u supposed to be? ugh that would be awkward.

Opps

2011-09-22T08:15:00.001-07:00

I seem to have forgotten I have a blog! I am coming back soon, I promise! Does anyone miss me??

Grateful # 2

2011-08-26T07:06:00.000-07:00

I am grateful today and every Friday Fancies. Although it may seem to some as a silly thing to be thankful for, I love connecting with other ladies who adore fashion & really enjoy the feedback from them.

Wedding Guest Chic

2011-08-25T21:32:00.000-07:00

When it comes to weddings being British means hats are a requirement, so when {longdistanceloving} said Friday Fancies was all about weddings I knew I had to include this amazing fascinator!

I chose a simple dress from Topshop accompanied with a pair of amazing diamond studs and nude pumps for some glam.

Are you loving the fascinator trend in America?

Grateful

2011-08-25T00:00:00.000-07:00

I am taking a training class at work that focuses on Energy and basically living a life of intention. I am a faithful reader of Make Under My Life and am constantly attempting to create my life with intention and this class is just enhancing that focus. In class they suggested writing down what we are grateful for, I decided to be open and do this on my blog.

Whether is something small or something Huge l I am excited to start the day off on a positive note.

Today I am grateful to have reconnected with my college roommate Ann. We have drifted apart over the years even though I always thought about how her and her family were doing.

I have always considered Ann a great friend, even when though we have not had much contact over the last few years. Lots of people, my self included, think just because you care about others that means you are a great friend. Unfortunately, this is not true. Caring is great but actions are so much more, it proves you are a great friend, it shows you will be there for them anytime.

As I work on where I want my life to be, I know friendship is one of my highest priorities. I can't simply just care anymore I need to invest my time into my friendships that are positive in my life and shift away from negative energy.

A Sleek Ponytail

2011-08-24T18:09:00.000-07:00

As I sit here dying my hair I began googling new hair styles. I came across Nicole Richies newest style and I am in love with this sleek ponytail and great light bangs.

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I have super fine hair and can barely make sweeping side bangs look full, I could never pull this look off, ugh so jealous now!

Monday Blues!

2011-08-22T10:38:00.000-07:00

Even though I have the Monday Blues I thought I would highlight some exciting things to start off the week in a positive mood!

* Weeds is on tonight ~ Makes a great ending to my Mondays.

* Whowhatwear ~ is launching a Beauty section, I love their site and can't wait to see their fav picks.

* My friend Ashley is flying in from Canada this weekend! Can't wait to see her!

* The downtown sidewalk sale is Saturday ~ I will get up early to pursue the sales

* Although I am not ready to share just yet I do have some exciting news about Stella Jewelry.

* 2 months until Vacation. I cannot wait to travel!!

What helps you guys get through Manic Mondays?

One day

2011-08-19T13:11:00.000-07:00

One day I want a chic downtown apartment filled with original artwork related to Fashion and Travel. I found the above illustration on Etsy and adore it!

Each time I travel to a new place I try to pick up original Art work instead of tacky t-shirts! This piece would fit my collection perfectly!

Does anyone else collect art from their travels? If so whats your favorite piece?

Back to School ~ Friday Fancies

2011-08-18T21:06:00.001-07:00

Friday Fancies this week is all about back to school. My outfit was inspired by my school uniform from England and rugby stripes.

I love that this shirt looks super comfortable perfect for running around campus on your first day of college. The shorts were my alternative to a pleated skirt. Gold bangles to add some sparkle and we know I love some sparkle. My first day of school flats were a must. The bag may not be perfect for school but I loved it anyway and would probably rock it over a backpack :)

Hop over to {longdistanceloving} and LIKE my outfit and check out the other amazing looks!

My life.......

2011-08-17T13:57:00.000-07:00

So as I sit at my desk contemplating my life and the changes I need to make I started thinking about the things I love and how my life does not reflect who I am or what I love:

Be prepared for randomness:

I have a million and one loves from British Candy to NCIS to Glitter to Victoria Beckham, David Beckham and Couture Chanel.

My go to outfits are a comfortable plain tee, soft jeans & flip flops but I love to dress up & wear fascinators with shoes that will inevitably hurt my feet but are amazing. I always say if I was skinny I would have amazing outfits & be so trendy, why am I waiting? I am British for goodness sake most of the time we are fashion forward yet I have fallen for the laid back southern way. (Which I am fan of by the way but its just not truly me)

My obsession for make up began around eight when I was in dance contests. I would play in my mums crazy 80’s Avon collections, blue eye shadow anyone? However nowadays I rarely take the time to put mascara on let alone one of hundreds of eye shadows.

I danced for 16 yrs, I will never claim to be the best but I LOVED it, it was what I did every weekend. When I moved to America I stopped dancing. Maybe I was rebelling because I was living 3000 miles from my home but now it’s something I regret constantly. Now I barely will dance at a club because I am self conscious of what people think. It’s so silly, I never cared when I was on stage with 200 people watching, but I care what people not paying attention “might” think.

I think Farmers Markets are delightful & always say I want to visit them when out of town. Yet I ignore the two amazing local ones in Salem & Roanoke. Why? Because I work every weekend & when I can I want to sleep in.

I want to see the world & I know I am lucky to have been to some amazing places. My only regret is not truly exploring and immersing my self into the cities or countries. When in Italy where the food is truly amazing my friend & I were so tired we settled for McDonald's one day. I will admit it felt great to have something familiar to eat but I missed out on not trying another family restaurant where you can taste the love in the food. I regret not taking enough photographs on trips; I regret not seeking out local hidden treasures & avoiding lines for those cliche tourist spots. Why? Well because I didn’t want to wait 2 hrs to look at the ceiling of St Peters only to be in there for two minutes. Yet in those two minutes I would have seen so much history & Art. I would have created a memory to tell when I am old.

When I was growing up like everyone I dreamt of living a big city with an amazing apartment, to die for clothes, surrounded by best friends & spending weekends showing my parents my new home. So Sex & the City! I just KNEW I would have a successful job related to fashion or marketing. Although I am content not living in somewhere like to NY. I still have those same dreams, I always think “when I do this I will be happier” but when am I going to do those things? I work in an industry I dislike; I am burnt out with the position & the negativity. Now don’t get me wrong I appreciate the fact that I have a job and a steady income, yet I am not happy with my work situation which seeps into my personal life. I KNOW I can make something of Stella Jewelry, all I need is time & I will have the life I dreamt of then & now.

I don’t love my life because I don’t include the things I love in it. I don’t know who I am as I have created a different person to fit in, to just pass the time. A person who has settled for what I have yet I know there is so much more.

I have said many times I need to create ME, I need to create my life & yet I am still holding back. I have to realize that I need to change the negatives in my life into positives. If that means a new job & struggling a little the sacrifice has to be worth it to be able to be happy. Life is a struggle no matter what so why shouldn't I embrace it to be who I want to be.

Ah there it is me being open on my blog one of my intentions. I apologize for some of the randomness but I just kept on typing.

Changing again!

2011-08-17T06:37:00.000-07:00

My travel plans never seem to go exactly as planned, ever. Oh well it makes it an adventure right? or maybe just stressful lol.

Anyway, I went from going to England, to San Fran to San Diego and now its Salem MA.

I can't explain how excited I am!!! I LOVE fall, I love Halloween, I love ghost stories and have read and seen the Crucible a million times.

Kristin and I will be donning our best witches hat for a few days in October to partake in the Salem festivities. Then we are off to Vegas to celebrate me officially getting old!

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Has anyone been to Salem MA? I am looking for good local restaurants and must see places that aren't maybe aren't so touristy.

Current Blog Obsession

2011-08-15T09:35:00.000-07:00

I am sure I am late to this party but I am completely obsessed with Cupcakes and Cashmere. I can't enough of her amazing clothes, shoes and delicious recipes. Also her photographs are gorgeous and make me want to eat, drink and buy everything.

The Alice & Olivia dress is perfection, Emily added a vintage pin to the waist adding some sparkle. The cookies, how yummy! She added sea salt for the that scrumptcious sweet and salty taste!! Again perfection.

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One sparkly nail! Adorable I love anything that glitters!

Anyone else have a current blog obsession I should know about?

Jewelry, Hats, Ballrooms & Goregous Flowers

2011-08-14T21:06:00.000-07:00

Last week we attended the Bella Magazine Women's Luncheon as vendors & had such an amazing time.

Although the prep work seemed never ending for the last two weeks the lack of sleep was definitely worth it. We met lots of great customers & other vendors. We enjoyed nibbling on amazing food, had a mini manicure & was able to spend the day in one of Roanoke's most historic renovated Ballroom's.

I was definitely stressed out about the display prior to the event. I wanted something simple, clean & easily shopable. Women need to touch and try on jewelry & there is nothing worse that not being able to easily pick something up. Overall I was happy with the end result. Women were attracted to our table which is very exciting. Next time I need to had some height to the display as the mirror needed to be elevated to eye level so it set the table off balance. I am a little OCD when it comes to balance so it drove be a little nuts, lol.

Beautiful roses adorned the room, cotton candy cones & delicious food lined the tables. Very girly & flirty & I got to wear a hat, so fabulous & British :)!

What does everyone think of my feather fascinator?

Mischievous Mint

2011-08-07T20:30:00.000-07:00

With fall fashions fast approaching every store (despite the heat waves) I am making the most out of my favorite summer nail polish!

I am so in love with Mischievous Mint by MAC. I will be sad to retire this until next year.

What was your favorite summer color?

Friday Fancies Maxi Dress

2011-08-04T21:45:00.001-07:00

Summer has been all about Maxi dresses and I wish I could rock one, to bad I'm 5'2 and would have a train if I attempted to wear one. Alas, I featured another one in my Friday Fancies look.

Besides being my favorites colors all in one dress, there is something about the design that reminds me of a dress from my childhood and 80s fashion has to either make you smile or laugh, so I had to feature it. I went a little overboard with the gold accessories but I can't get enough of gold right now. Plus I love how turquoise and gold look great together.

Are you following the Maxi dress trend??

Style Crush

2011-08-03T21:22:00.000-07:00

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I mean how cute can someone dress everyday?

Mila Kunis has come a long way from playing the crazy girlfriend on That 70's Show. Over the last year her style has a evolved into the perfect mix of flirty and sexy.

How can she be so lucky and get to make out with Justin? Life's just not fair!!

P.S her stylist def. needs a raise because he/she has amazing taste.

God Save My Shoes...

2011-08-02T20:46:00.000-07:00

Remember when Carrie was allowed into the Vogue Accessory closet and found the Mary Jane Manolo's? Well that closet was not a set just for the show. Vogue catalog's and archives their pieces and the shoe collection has to be out of control.

This fall a new documentary, God Save my Shoes, is airing during Paris Fashion week delving into the obsession we have and they were given access to the closet! AHHH! How jealous I am over that a camera man had access and probably had no idea what the history and importance to fashion those items have?

I can't wait to watch! Seen as my budget doesn't allow for Louboutin's or Brian Atwoods I generally have a fantasy pair in mind to be my first purchase when I win the lottery. Right now they are these little sparklers.

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"For all the ladies who have told us that "Lady Peep" strass was their dream shoe - you can stop dreaming. She's finally arrived, covered in hand-placed crystals, certain to take your breath away"

They would take my breath way for sure, right after I fall over trying to walk in a 6" heel!

Are you a shoe lover? Do you have a fantasy pair?

Roxy can cook???

2011-08-02T19:28:00.000-07:00

Most people like to assume that because I don't cook, I can't! In fact I love to cook I just don't have the time to cook.

Tonight I made crab, bacon and cream cheese croissants!

and they were amazing!!!!!

First Class ~ Friday Fancies

2011-07-28T21:12:00.001-07:00

There was no specific theme for this week for Friday Fancies so I decided to create an outfit fit for a jet setter in first class.

I am dying over the shoes, although I could never walk in them!

Waving Goodbye to my trip home

2011-07-28T08:58:00.000-07:00

I mentioned a few times that at the end of August I would be flying home to see my childhood best friend get married. Unfortunately due to my pending citizenship I cannot go home now. To say I am sad is an understatement but I am trying to focus on the fact I will get to spend more time with her & other friends when I visit in the Spring without the hussle & bussle of the wedding.

So with my plans so abruptly changing I found myself with 4 weeks of vacation left for the rest of the year! A bitter sweet discovery. So with Vegas in the works for the big 30th birthday I also planning on seeing some of California. Originally we were planning Northern California but I am now thinking relaxing in San Diego would be amazing too & a little warmer in October.

I want to hear about other peoples trips to California, must sees? Any hidden local treasures I should know about? Northern vs Southern?

Photos courtesy of Tripadvisor.com

Pretty Things

2011-07-27T13:09:00.000-07:00

How gorgeous are these MAC eyeshadows? I think I may need them!

So Sweet!

2011-07-27T09:21:00.000-07:00

Remember these little beauties I was craving? Well my dear, sweet friend Tricia bought them for me! Entirely to generous of her BUT I cannot wait to wear them and add some color to my closet! Thank you Tricia!

In other news I have been slacking on the blogger front. Did anyone notice? I hope to get back on track tomorrow with a little travel post and on Friday with a fashion.

I must....

2011-07-21T10:26:00.000-07:00

Have I ever told you about my love for Maroon 5? Well its the kind of love that last's a life time, true Love. The kind of connection that is always there, no matter how long it is between ~~seing them~~ listening to their albums. The kind where I fall in love all over again every time I see Adam Levine! I mean look at him, gorgeous!

They will be in Charlotte on August 2nd and I must see them!

3 months until my 20's are OVER!

2011-07-21T07:58:00.000-07:00

With only three months until my 30th Birthday I need to really get somethings done on my list. You know when I have 5 mins between 2 jobs, Stella Jewelry, friends, family and sleep!! Heres a quick update!

1. ~~I want a start my blog!~~ Still blogging 7 months later yay

2. ~~Visit my friends all over England~~ ~ This one is changing to Visit California ~ situations with my citizenship process have postponed my trip to England, more to come on that.

3. Visit my old friends ~ I need to make these plans ASAP.

am evaluating situations in my life and relationships to eliminate negative influence and be the happiest me possible :)

5. Be more social ~ I am def. being more social and open to new people and new things, but again this is work in progress and my limited time can hinder this.

6. Take French again and remember it this time - I feel like this just may end up a fail!

7. To fully Launch Stella Jewelry. They say find something you love and you will never feel like its work. I truly love making jewelry and hope this can be my career sooner than later ~ I am working HARD on the website, have some events in the next couple of months so the progress in the department is amazing.

8. To stick it out with college classes, college isn't for me but I now know its something I want to complete.

9. Actually read and enjoy a fiction novel. I am not a huge reader unless it’s some juicy celeb gossip online so I would love to actually make my way though a book and enjoy it. ~ Maybe Ill get to this while in California this fall.

10. I danced from the time I was 2-17 and then I moved to America and never danced again. I am not sure why I decided not to start again but it’s something I regret so before I am 30 I vow to at least take one dance class. Probably hip hop, those routines are always by favorite on SYTYCD. ~ I started Zumba classes, I won't cross this off until I have been going consistently for a few weeks.

~~11. Take my Mum to a SYTYCD show~~, she’s obsessed with the show and I know to see them in person would bring her such joy ~ Took my mum for her birthday it was soo fun!

12. To send a celebrity my Jewelry :) hopefully they I will spot it on one of my gossip sites :) ~ Who should I send it too?? Posh Spice?

13. To visit Salem, MA in the fall ~ Maybe another fail because of the cali trip!

14. To actually rest and relax on a vacation ~ Ill report back in October

15. Make cupcakes from scratch and learn to decorate them like a professional.

16. Send all my out of town friends a letter through snail mail. Who doesn’t love something in the mail that’s not a bill or junk mail :)

17. Clear out my closets and donate anything I do not need ~ I have done this once this year but am working on it again for a event we are planning. More details soon!

18. To organize all photographs and scrap books.

19. Go to a tech game.

20. Take a ghost/historic tour.

~~21. To not eat fast food for a week, actually a month!~~ ~ No fast food February was a success read about it here :)

~~22. Help my Mum as much as I can in her store~~ ~ This is a work in progress but I have been helping her with blogging, displays and other marketing items as much as I can.

~~23. Enjoy the little things~~ ~ I do this more and more each day.

24. Take a silver smith class.

25. Stop procrastinating things ~ getting a lot better!! This is really helping with Stella Jewelry.

26. This is getting tougher :) ok this one is simple enough wake up early on the weekends and take a stroll through the farmers market or downtown. Photograph this experience as I am not a morning person ~ I bought a new Camera and need to plan this soon!

~~27. Live a life of intention~~ ~ Read about that here

~~28. To find another store (other than my Mums amazing shop) to carry our jewelry~~ ~ My jewelry is now being carried at the Grainery in Rocky Mount.

29. To enjoy every minute of my last 6 months of my 20’s and not stress the 30s.

30. Have an amazing 30th birthday party :) ~ Vegas Baby

~~4. Become a more positive person~~ ~ I would say this will always be a work in progress but I

Stella Jewelry Sophie Look

2011-07-20T21:27:00.000-07:00

I wanted to see what look I could come up with around our Sophie Collection. I am in love with the corset dress from Victorias Secret and the price ($50) is amazing!

Business Plug

2011-07-18T09:06:00.000-07:00

As I work on launching a new website and new online store I added a style page. Currently, I am just posting pictures of customers wearing our jewelry but I am toying with the idea of this being in blog form. I will still post pictures of customers but would also like to post ideas of what to style the earrings or necklaces with and interact with customers on how they would style them too.

As I figure out what form I want it to take I am asking for photographs of people wearing our jewelry. Hence the shameless plug. If you have one of our pieces and want to be added to the style page send us your pic. In return we will send you a nice little discount for the online store when it launches. You know you want a discount :)

Send all pictures to stella@stellajewelrystore.com ~ I can't wait to see how people style our pieces!

Happy Weekend

2011-07-15T10:58:00.000-07:00

Hope all you lovelies have a wonderful weekend. I can't wait to relax a little after another crazy work week!!

Tonight I am going to have my feet detoxed! Not really sure what they do but its supposed to be good for you! I will report back and let you know :)

As my Big trip home has been put on hold, (more to come on that later) I am going to spend the weekend planning a road trip of Northern California and then a crazy weekend in Vegas to ~~mourn~~ celebrate the end of my 20's.

Ill be back next week with updates to my 30 before 30, my trip to England :(, Detoxing, Zumba and "Whats in your phone?"

Happy Weekend!

Friday Fancies ~ Easy Chic

2011-07-14T20:32:00.001-07:00

I am linking up with {longdistanceloving} for her Friday Fancies! Her theme today is a Lazy and Hazy summer outfit. So I was thinking even if you feel like having a lazy summer day, it doesn't mean you can't look fab!

This Maxi dress looks adorable and so easy to wear. The Proenza bag is pefection for a cross over purse and layed necklaces add some glam without to much hassle. Of course sunglasses are a summer staple to every outfit!

Now if I could just make the effort to pick and cute outfit when I wake up late for work!

What's in Your Phone?

2011-07-11T21:12:00.000-07:00

The other day I was looking through my mobile and noticed all of the random photographs I have saved. Some funny, some sentimental, some I have no idea why I took them

In an effort to enjoy the little thing's in life I am sharing with you my eclectic collection of pics in a weekly post called "What's in Your Phone?", creative name huh?

Imagine passing this little beauty every morning when you were 15! Creepy huh? My Mum's celebrity crush has always been Mr. Bowie and one Sunday my childhood best friend's hilarious Mum, Sue, bought this master piece from a yard sale for her.

As creepy and as dated as this picture it is, it makes me very nostalgic and giggle at how horrid the 80's were!!

Next week I hope you link up with me and share a picture!

New Beauty Products!!

2011-07-11T20:17:00.000-07:00

My July Birch Box is already here! Its like getting a little birthday present every month, well except the part where I pay $10 for it.

This months items were picked by designer Cynthia Rowley and again they don't disappoint, the box included:

Almond and Apricot Bar ~ It looks yummy but I don't eat nuts.

Redkin ~ Shine Brilliance - Glistening Spray. Perfect travel size

Purity ~ Facial Cleanser

Zoya Polish ~ Pretty Neutral Color

Nuxe ~ Dry oil for hands, face and hair

Look out for blogs about mine and my friends opinions on the products!

Fashion Friday ~ Nicole Richie

2011-07-08T10:42:00.003-07:00

Nicole by Roxy1021 featuring logo sunglasses

In the spirit of Nicole Richie joining the NBC Fashion Star team here are some of my picks from her Winter Kate and House of Harlow 1960 collections. I can't wait for the show, I was obsessed with Project Runway until it moved to Lifetime and my friend Ashley and I may have watched the Simple Life a few times ;-) clearly Nicole was the star of that show!

Remember my obsession with the Peacock Bracelet? Well its 7 months later I am still obsessed and I still don't have it, whomp!! Maybe I will buy it to celebrate becoming a citizen! I am submitting papers this week to become a dual citizen! Exciting stuff!

Tired!

2011-07-08T08:26:00.000-07:00

After a few crazy busy weeks and an insanely busy short week at the Corporate Job I am officially exhausted. Working two jobs, being a friend and daughter plus creating a business is getting tiring. I think adults deserve nap time too! However, I know this will be worth it and one day I will be relaxing on a yacht :) ...what? I have to dream big!

Although the website is up and people can visit, its not complete by any means. So this week I have spent every night working on pieces, pictures and of course the actual store. It is still a slow process and I need more content but IT WILL be complete by next Friday. Setting a deadline will help me stay motivated and help with my intention* to not procrastinate!

Here is a little peak at the pieces in the online store!

*To read about Designing my life with intentions read this post!

Fashion Friday ~ Stella Jewelry Edition

2011-07-01T11:56:00.000-07:00

I was planning a cute Montauk inspired 4^th of July outfit for Fashion Friday but then I spent the last two days working on a video for Stella Jewelry. Jewelry is fashion after all so this counts as my fashion post.

Remember when I talked about my friend Blair and his TV Showed Tuned Out? Well he is working on running the show on a local network and needs sponsors for commercials, hence a video for us. With no budget, a camera, very little time and some jewelry Blair spent the last two nights filming, directing, editing, and listening to me being picky and vague with my descriptions. The outcome is a cute video of my beautiful friend Brianna wearing our jewelry around town.

The only story line to the video is that our pieces are for everyday life, simple but fun for any occasion. Please watch the video and leave us a comment on what you think?

I am so happy with the video and can’t believe something I created is on video looking professional. Silly I know but its kind of weird to see someone online wearing my jewelry. In reviewing the process the only changes I would make would be for me to find a way to be clearer about what I want and define the story beforehand. When I say this I don’t mean for you to think the video isn’t what I want, because it is. If I had been clearer and more descriptive about what I wanted filming and production would have been easier for Blair and Brianna. I am simply reviewing the process so I can grow as a person and creating a business with intention.

Thank You’s

~ Viva La Cupcake ~ Thank you for allowing us to use your store to film and thank you making amazing chocolate chip cookie dough cupcakes! If you are in Roanoke you must visit it them on Grandin Road.

~ Obvious Thanks to Blair for all he did and for supporting us!

~Thank you to Brianna, who not only modeled but styled the shoot! You were gorgeous!

~ My little Brother who helped with production.

~ Thank you to my friends who played extras, sorry most of the scenes didn’t make the cut.

~ Taryn, thank you again for the logo! We love it.

~Krystal, thank you for buying a piece straight from the shoot. You are so sweet and supportive of us.

Sacrifice

2011-06-29T07:59:00.000-07:00

To most of the world sacrifice is negative. You must give up something in order to have something else, figuratively and literally. Time, money, relationships, whatever it maybe the word indicates a loss or an inconvenience. I however am turning my sacrifice's into a positive in my business.

Creating a business is HARD. Its is scary, frustrating, exhausting, expensive and insecure. I could probably go on with the list of negatives for a while but the truth is, I am tired of the negative. I am tired of me focusing on the negative, tired of negative energy around me in my friendships and work life. As I work to change those areas I do not want it to seep into my business. I want to be very conscious that every fail is actually and opportunity to grow, that every dollar spent will eventually be returned and ultimately know that all the negatives lead to one POSITIVE, my business.

I am recognising that creating a business is rewarding, fulfilling, freeing, spontaneous, educational, it has infinite potential. All positives derived from the negatives.

Over the next two months I am excited to sacrifice my time to focus on Stella Jewelry. I see potential in the website that I need to put into action, I am determined to have the online store completed. The fall collection needs to be ready by August 10th and I need to truly spend time on marketing the company. I am going to stop complaining about falling short and just make things happen.

So if I don't have time to hang out to grab a quick dinner I hope my friends and family understand. I am not being anti social and I shall return to the social scene eventually. Wearing fabulous Stella Jewelry of course!

P.S ~ Thank you to Mum, Mama Rousis, Melanie, Brianna, Amanda, Trina, Krystal, Taryn and even Blair and my brother Tony. You have supported us all in different ways and we really appreciate it! <3

New stones!

2011-06-28T14:29:00.000-07:00

I am STILL working on the online store! I know those who have been following me are probably thinking SERIOUSLY? Me too!

I am honestly getting frustrated at how long its taking but I know that my intention is have a great online collection and I need to make sure when I launch the store I am happy and most importantly everything is right!

As I keep working on the collections here is a little peek and some of the new colors we are using!

Aren't they gorgeous and perfect for fall?