Happy Leap Day!! Shouldn't it be a holiday?
As a kid my dad would remind me that this was the only day a girl could propose to her boyfriend based on an old Irish tradition. I remember giggling in my loft bed thinking he was crazy that girls should never do that.
However is it a crazy tradition? Engagements, to me should be somewhat of a surprise & obviously a celebration. However women get tired of waiting, men don't want to deal with the hoopla & I know many people who plan on getting married without a proposal. You know like Big & Carrie, no romance, no celebration;
“I guess its time we get married” “Yea I guess it is, ok” “Great, what’s for dinner?”
I have no doubt this can work for people but why wouldn’t you want the excitement of it all? Too many people feel like marriage is just the next logical step & there's nothing wrong with thinking that. However just because it's supposed to be whats next, doesn't mean its the right thing. Shouldn't the man want to ask you in a grand or thoughtful way?
If there is no excitement about getting engaged, will you be excited to plan the wedding, to actually get married?? I think the engagement can set the tone of the wedding & who wants to sit through a business lunch reception.
Maybe the Irish have it right; if your boyfriend hasn’t proposed to you & you don't want to wait, why not use this day to break the norm. Get excited, plan something fitting for your relationship. What a great story to tell your friends today & grandchildren in the years to come.
So ladies take the "leap" & pop the question.
So ladies take the "leap" & pop the question.
